Change Fright

The greatest challenge in my day to day life is how to get the most value out of my conventional life. The world is loaded with great opportunities for those of us who have pursued the lifestyle and dreams of Western society. We're well educated, are saving for retirement the moment we hit the work force and are incredibly marketable in work forces around the world.

We effectively have the tools and the opportunities so where is the disconnect? What is stopping us from pursuing these opportunities?

Primarily, I think its fear of change- its change fright.

The easiest path is always the 'no' path and this is true for all of life's choices. Why can't someone completely change careers at any age? Universities don't have an age limit on students- you can go back at any point. Your family and friends most likely live where you do but its easy to connect with them from abroad. Why not take a year and go live in a different country?

The answer is simple- we are not uncomfortable right now. But are we maximizing our life value? Could we be making better life experiences for ourselves and our friends/family?

Its impossible to know.

As a result, we say no to change. We are scared to make excellent mistakes.

I think everyone needs to start evaluating what excellent mistakes they can make. Inevitably, this means change. Embrace it.